In the last misconception that I talked about, I mentioned the issue of teaching minors about Paganism and feel that more needs to be said about it as it is a much debated topic. Should people be allowed to teach minors? Why or why not? Each person has his or her own reasons for teaching or not.
My first reaction would be to say, why not? Every other religion is expected to teach their children about their religion. If a minor walked into a Christian church, as an example, that child would not be turned away and there would not be many that would find anything wrong with the situation. As I write this, I remember that when I was eight, I walked to and attended a church alone without my parents or any other adults and I was never turned away.
Unfortunately, there is more to consider, as some writers have pointed out. As a minority religion, Pagans have to be careful as there are still many misconceptions. Although it is a recognized religion, people still react negatively when they hear the word Pagan. Remember the family from Illinois?
In the current issue (#44) of PanGaia, 4 people discuss their views on whether Pagans should teach minors. Two say no, two say yes. However, three of four, including both of the people that say “no,” point out that if they are approached by minors that that they will point them in the direction of what they should study. My first thought was “But that is teaching them, just in a different way – it’s guiding.” It may not be standing beside them telling them information directly, but guiding is still teaching.
One of the debate contributors in PanGaia, talks about this issue in terms of the “mystic arts” saying that it is not a good idea to teach kids magic and the kids should not be taught the Pagan religion. But teaching kids about the religious side of Paganism doesn’t necessary include magical training.
I think that there needs to be a distinction between the religious side and the practice of magic. Yes, Pagans often include magic as part of their religion, but it is just one aspect. There are still so many things that are available to teach. Almost all the people in the PanGaia issue mentioned that they would direct kids who wanted to learn to some subjects such as anthropology, history, mythology and astronomy while they are waiting to turn 18. While all of these subjects are great to know, they still don’t teach people about the morals and ethics that a Pagan follows.
Although I can understand some of the reasoning behind not teaching minors about Paganism, especially when it comes to the magic aspect, if you deny kids the right to a teacher, they will always find a way to learn. And it might not be a way that is conducive to themselves or the Pagan community. As one writer in PanGaia mentioned, there are some out that will prey on the young and will use any means to do so. Some even use the guise of Paganism.
So, should minors be allowed to learn? I really think that they should be allowed to learn, but with certain limitations, especially when it comes to magic. However, I would agree that if the child is not their own, the parents should be contacted and what will be taught, with permission from the parent, should be discussed.
Here are what others have to say about teaching minors:
Kyriea at Witches Voice
Why arent' we raising our Children as Pagans?Pagan Parenting